Wife disagrees with husband, with mother-in-law and want a divorce

Conflicts, disagreements with husbands, mothers-in-law are fiercely controversial things that often happen leading to the husband and wife chisel, mother-in-law relationship - the bride is fierce. Consequently, the couple divorced.

Wife disagrees with husband, with mother-in-law who wants a divorce

1. Wife disagrees with her husband, with her mother-in-law wanting a divorce

Ms. P from My Duc Hanoi, her husband from Ha Nam, both after finishing university in Ho Chi Minh City live and establish a business. For the first five years, the siblings lived together happily and had a four-year-old son. The couple's career is very stable, the family income is quite high. Her husband worked as a banker, his wife worked as a tour guide and later opened his own travel business. Husband and wife are very loving, caring together to work, build a happy family life

She and her husband bought the house; living steadily and happily with his son and staying with his mother-in-law to take care of his grandson. Some time later, as her work grew more and more; the shuttle, guide the delegation of international tourists almost closed week, no holidays. Her company's volume, scale and complexity of work is increasing, difficult to control. Her business began to overflow, busy with dark eyes. Despite her mother-in-law's help, but the housewife work, taking her children to school she still has to take on the task.

The workload at the company is more and more; while she did not have much experience in management and practice. So she had to focus, spend more time on business; taking care of her husband and children, she could not be attentive, whole heart.

You're aware of it, too; she tries to regulate, arrange time to harmonize between business and family. But her hard work was not encouraged, shared from her husband. Your husband only knows how to work, every day, late to seven, eight in the evening to return. Your husband should have understood and shared those struggles. But here, not only is not shared sympathy; her husband, and also her mother-in-law, siblings and husband were responsible, criticizing her.

If Ms. P is not for her husband and children, for family life, or her husband is the master of the family, worried about the economy; oriented to education, the future of children, then she does not have to struggle. However, the more enthusiastic she was in business; earning more material assets, the more conflicts and disagreements live. The times the couple argued, her husband almost did not react, spoke up. In particular, when the mother-in-law of the bride has words to speak out against each other, despite having a husband; But you don't have any explanations or analysis. The husband always tends to protect, do not want to lose the heart of his mother and relatives. Many times he has told her: his wife may have one or two, but her mother and sister have only one. Perhaps any wife who is said by her husband to be like that, will surely be hurt, the feelings of husband and wife will be cracked boldly. But it didn't stop there, knowing that she and her husband were chiseled in life; her husband's family took care of her, calculating the division of her and her husband's assets after the divorce.

Under unbearable pressure, she reached out to our DFC Lawfirm for advice and look forward to a divorce. She was psychologically prepared to live a new life in place of the over-pressure she was under

2. DFC Counsel's advice and advice

After we received the case, she shared about her life, her struggles, difficulties ... we recognize some problems and advise you:

First:

She was a sharp woman, capable of business; she and her husband from empty hands, only after time, had created a lot of wealth and wealth for the family. When the workload is too much, she takes a lot of effort and time to focus on business. So I can't take care of my family. Meanwhile, her husband and mother-in-law did not understand and sided with her; constantly blaming, not thinking positively about her. As a result, her life was too stressful and stressful. More specifically, her husband and her husband's family had words, thinking of divisive married life between her and her husband.

She decided to divorce, ending the couple's life because, her husband is not a decisive husband, definitive. Her husband was not strong, tough, did not have a clear attitude and defended her against pressure difficulties. Her husband ignored, did not share his wife's motivation. He does not take on his responsibilities as a husband who can ensure a full life of material and wealth for his wife and children. He is also not a spiritual support, a sharing of worries about family activities. Perhaps, she had no shoulders left, no solid support to take refuge. He was willing and agreed to divorce, when she mentioned.

Your husband is to blame, he is uncontrollable, uncontrollable family life. He did not anticipate the impact, great consequences from conflicts, disagreements of the life of the mother-in-law of the bride. However, take a closer look at her family's story; you are also part of the cause of this serious incident.

Because, during her creation, buying a valuable home; also pressing her husband and her husband's house; she was standing alone without giving her husband a common ownership name (although her name alone was discussed and exchanged with her husband). Perhaps in your husband's mind, sustainability, co-spouse life may soon be over.

*Secondly, we also analyze, point out to her; Maybe it's because you're so talented in business.

She had prestige, mastered the economy, owned the family; so her husband suffered from a lack of self-confidence. As a result, he left her worried about solving everything in life, from economic worries to family and children's work. He also did not need and did not dare to have opinions and opinions with her, so she felt that the couple's life had no common voice and purpose. That's the look of the wife like you. She never stood in her husband's position (who compared everything inferior to her); to understand and share with her husband. You have to be patient, to be humble, to realize the thinking, the true nature of your husband.

*Thirdly, our advice to you is:

The first thing she needs to do is to help her husband have faith in the couple's life, believe in her and love her husband and children, family. You should sell or give your husband the same property that you're standing in. Thus, her husband's doubts and beliefs in married life returned.

Next, sheneeds to quit her business, relieve too much stress at work, so that she can return to the normal life of her mother and wife. She had to exchange and confide in her husband with a considerate attitude, earnestly to build and preserve the family home with her husband and children. She decided that divorce was not difficult, the hardest for us was to help her reunite her family.

If you get divorced, you try to find yourself a peaceful, gentle life. That's your right, but you don't know that; The more she overcast this life to find happiness for herself, the more she pushed her children into the suffering and hurt they suffered. She divorced when she robbed her of the opportunity to live the happiness of her children. She took away the opportunity to live with a family full of love for the parents of her children.

After hearing advice from our attorney; Ms. P thought and asked not to divorce to give her and her husband more time and opportunities. If you and your wife have nothing to change, you will actively call us for a quick divorce service.

Hopefully these sharing of DFC lawyers will help her and her husband with her mother-in-law have made good changes. Body!

Ls. Le Minh Cong