This is a true story and also the achievement of our DFC Lawyer; help their families reunite, heal and build a solid family life.
Separated and signed a divorce petition but not divorced?
1. The story of mending and reuniting
Her story is nguyen Phuong T and her husband Nguyen Tran Van P in Tan Phu district, Ho Chi Minh City. The couple have been married since 2011 and have a four-year-old grandson. Mr. P's career as an architect, Ms. T opened her own fashion sewing factory and shop to sell imported products as well as products produced by her. Ms. P devotes absolute time to business and business to increase income for her family. Every day, when the time is up, she arranges to go home to take advantage of cooking, family work, serving her husband and children' activities. While Mr. P enjoyed gathering, drinking with friends and colleagues. In addition, Mr. P is addicted to online gaming; he neglected household work, did not care, cared for his wife, children and the couple's life. Mr. P's daily schedule only knows how to go to work and drink or play games online. One day he was asked by his wife to pick up his children, then forgot to let him wait at school until 20:00 to pick him up. Ms. P many times analyzed and advised but Mr. P did not change. The couple's life often occurs conflicts, disagreements, quarrels, frictions with each other. She texted, called her parents-in-law to admonish, teach; But Mr. P hasn't changed.
She had repeatedly intended to divorce but did not do so, because she thought about her children, thinking about family life, so she still tried to be patient, persuading her husband to change.
However, Mr. P still does not progress, still only cares for his own pleasures and hoies. Two years ago, Mr. P had quit drinking, did not gather, he was fascinated by a certain sedation. He lived closed in the room, to read the Bible; he indifferent to everything, does not care about business, does not think about creating economy, building family life.
Sister P was gradually exhausted, feeling desperate loneliness; those pressures were overwhelming for a woman like you. She has to own the family economy, while taking care of house work, living, children's education. In those difficulties, she was not shared, shouldered by a man like her husband. Therefore, in the past year and a half she decided to live separately from Mr. P. Despite living in the same house, the two never had a relationship or talked directly with each other; everything is traded, exchanged by zalo message, phone. She also repeatedly actively discussed divorce with her husband, her husband also agreed, there was no objection. Because of that, she said, her husband also did not want to maintain, survive this marriage and family. Now she decided to divorce, decided to end family life because there was too much pressure, fatigue stress occurred for her.
Ms. T decided to go to our DFC Lawyer's office to consult to carry out the divorce proceedings. She and her husband agreed, consying all the contents of the property, children and support after the divorce. You have signed the application and prepared quite a full set of divorce files to ask us to settle.
2. DFC Counsel's advice and advice
Through understanding her story, we realized: Ms. T is a sharp woman, assured; hard work, love your husband and children, take care of your family. Despite facing many difficulties, under a lot of pressure of work, family, but she still calm, patiently advised orientation for her husband. In this era, women are both edgy, good at business and assured, thoughtful in the family house is very difficult to find.
However, her choice of divorce solution; according to DFC lawyers we are not the optimal solution. Of course, in this case, she is not wrong, she has the right to divorce to relieve pressure, free herself. The person to blame, who is at fault in this case is her husband, Mr. P. But if she divorces, that is, she only cares about herself, her own happiness. Meanwhile, her child was very young; your child still needs a family with full parents. Surely she was aware of their hurt, their loss; then why did she still deliberately break up to rob the child of that divine father.
Our lawyers have no right to judge, to intervene deeply in your private life, your feelings, your feelings, and your family.' However, we found that perhaps the profound cause of the divorce was partly on her part.
She was too greedy for work, too worried about business, earning money to nurture her family. Meanwhile, she still had to perform the position of wife, mother. Managing and operating a huge workload of a factory, a fashion business with hundreds of workers is a man's job. But she still tries to take over and implement them. Therefore, when she performed the work of the mother, the wife, they eroded, took away the most of her spirit and strength. Therefore, pressure, pressure, stress always appear with her.
She was in business, making money for life; She worked, sacrificed everything for her family, for her husband and children. So now, her family life is full enough, her husband and children have just enjoyed the fruits and glory. That is, her hard work and sacrifice are also for her loved ones, not for others. So she was tired, stress was inevitable; But don't blame me for that.
Although she did not complain or complain to anyone; but she decided to divorce in order to relieve the pressure, reduce the stress that the current life brings. However, she could not know, when she divorced and when she searched for a new life, it must have been less stressful, less stressful than it is now. Especially, when she tried to free herself and find a new life, she accidentally robbed her of the opportunity to live happily and fully. If you can hold back, be patient and sacrifice your mind even more, your child will have a full, fulfilling life. They will not be hurt in the soul, they have the opportunity to learn, grow up and grow in the love of both father and mother.
Our DFC lawyer has advice, when your income has stabilized, your money is not lacking. So you need to know how to reduce business, business to have conditions, time to build and stabilize married family life. You should continue to live a married life, you should share more with your husband. You need to give in, "lower yourself," stand in the husband's place to sympathize with him. We think her husband is under a lot of pressure, too; in the position of husband who does not own the family, master the economy; surely he will be self-deprecating and bear a lot of psychological burdens. Surely her patience, sacrifice for her family, because her husband and children will bring but happy results.
After taking hours of consultation, sharing, giving the most sincere advice of our DFC lawyers; Ms. T has decided to pause the divorce, please withdraw the dossier to exchange, talk with her husband; trauma and stabilize family life.
That is all the story of Ms. T and also the achievement of our lawyer has achieved; help T's family reunite, heal and build a solid family life.
Ls. Le Minh Cong
Luật Sư: Lê Minh Công
Với bề dày kinh nghiệm hơn 15 năm trong ngành tư vấn pháp luật, Luật sư tranh tụng tại Tòa án, Ông Lê Minh Công đã dẫn dắt DFC trở thành một thương hiệu uy tín và chất lượng cho người dân và là một trong những công ty đi đầu tại Việt Nam trong lĩnh vực tư vấn luật qua tổng đài.
