Why is there an affair but the marriage is not broken down?

When betrayed by your partner, of course you will be very distressed and angry; Immediately you take retaliatory actions and, or you will proceed with the divorce immediately to the liberation. If you choose divorce, it is common, nothing worth discussing; for everything, your family life is over. Your morals, tolerance, and respect for your partner are not available.

You have not given your partner the opportunity to correct the mistake, you have not let the sacred husband and wife have the opportunity to "test fire"; because the couple after experiencing "turbulence, storm" will be very sustainable, difficult to divide. Life, happiness and good things will come to "happy" people like you.

Why is there an affair but the marriage is not broken down?

*This is a real story of the couple in Hanoi:

This young couple had a very happy life with two sons; a 5-year-old and an 8-year-old; very stable income work. The couple had large, stable buildings; and both of them owned a drug store near a major hanoi hospital. The cause of the affair of that wife is her husband's passion for business, not caring about the psychological life, feelings of his wife much. So that's why his wife had an affair with the shipper, who specializes in drugs for his home store. The incident lasted 5.6 months when her husband found out. The young husband was only 30 years old but had a bravery and tolerance, very respectable amount.

The husband still silently endured, did not dare to share this incident with anyone. He actively talked, talked frankly with his wife to find out the cause of the incident. After being clearly stated by his wife that the reason is due to lack of love affair, her husband neglected to ask questions, cared about his wife's 200-year-old edi mind so much that there was an out-of-line relationship with him "technology hugging car". He went on to see his parents-in-law to inform, making it clear to his wife's family about his daughter's story. With apologies and advice, teachings of parents-in-law; he agreed to ignore his wife to continue to maintain married life.

*But his mentality is still feelings, obsessions, wounds of his heart are still persistently heavy. He decided to call our DFC 1900.6512 Call Center for advice.

After DFC Lawyers we asked him to clarify issues such as: work, personality, care for her husband and children, to his wife's family; his personality, his time with his wife and family; at the same time, he also tells about his wife's feelings for the shipper. We have discovered and consulted to share frankly with him specifically the following issues:

He is the husband of work who is the true exemplary father of the children. He did not closely instruct, admonish his wife, even over-indulgently led to his wife to occur this incident. His wife did not care much for her husband and children and family; neglect the work of the mother with the children, of the housewife in the family. He did not admonish, only that he even did those jobs for his wife.

He was moral and knowledgeical; his words and behavior with his wife and children are very cultural and polite. It is in him that there is a willingness, tolerance to accept forgiveness, forgive his wife to continue the marriage. Our DFC lawyers are very praised and respected for your noble actions. In this day and age, it is difficult to find such a humane and humane husband.

He is not a man who lacks any point in appearance, is not a person without qualifications, business capacity. On the contrary, he is also the grandfather who perfects both appearance, personality and economic capacity, mastering the family. We advise, share and encourage him more; You need patience and repression to sacrifice for the family you've been building for nearly 10 years. Especially for the future, for the lives of two sons to overcome those feelings.

If you decide to divorce to abandon, take revenge on your wife and seek a new life, you're still the right person. But whether his new life is as full and full as he is now, is he happier than he is living with his wife and children?... Especially when he finds another opportunity for himself, it is he who has robbed the opportunity to live happily and roundly of the children.

One of our DFC Lawyers' next advice to you is that you need to admonish, teach your wife with a clear, strict attitude. His wife must make changes in thoughts, thoughts and behaviors to ensure she is a family woman and the mother of her children. You need to give your wife time to change, change. However, in his mind, he needs to immediately eliminate the doubts and doubts that are always haunting in his mind; resulting in a word of action that is detrimental to the couple's life.

You mustn't be disappointed and always have faith in your wife. Thus, his wife appreciated and respected him so that his wife had the opportunity to correct and atone for him. His and his wife's life gradually improved over time.

One last advice we gave you was that you should take control of your family's business and finance. Husbands, men who take all control, mastery of work, family economy is not always good, especially in circumstances like the current family. He needs to check and review the business at his wife's drug store; need to manage, control the outing, inputs arising of the store to master all situations. There is such a loophole, the new disadvantage situation limits the maximum that occurs to his family.

The above is the full story and advice of our DFC Lawyer with this young husband. After hearing our advice, he was much less affectionate and confident to continue to build a married life.

In the pressures of married life, the need for psychological counseling is increasingly common. Call hotline 19006512 to be consulted by family psychology consultants who are experienced lawyers of DFC to be confided, psychological counseling in the best way. Thank you!

Ls. Le Minh Cong